Iona Winter
Tīmata
I think it’s fair to say that the majority of us who experience on-going pain will seek relief from medical practitioners. Four years of repeat presentations in excruciating pain, to GPs and emergency departments, and the medical profession were unable to diagnose my son. Being a skinny young Māori musician, they labelled him a ‘drug seeker’ instead.
When someone doesn’t fit into a prescribed box, shouldn’t you look further?
Diagnosis
My son was finally diagnosed with fibromyalgia in 2016. The ‘drug seeker’ label was dropped, and he was prescribed more opiate-based medication. These caused severe seizures and a speech impediment. Then anti-depressants were prescribed, as ‘muscle relaxants’, and he experienced a psychosis as a result. DHB (District Health Board) physiotherapy appointments were cancelled at short notice, and not rescheduled. Counselling was never offered.
I can see why you’d want to give up after that.
Every day I thought of my son, on a benefit, living in damp, rundown and expensive Auckland accommodation, trying his best to manage the condition. It gutted me. So we researched, and he tried several bodywork modalities, rongoā Māori and naturopathic medications. These had positive results, but were unable to be accessed conjointly due to my limited financial resources.
What we came to know was that fibromyalgia required careful management, with a wide focus including tinana, hinengaro, whānau, and wairua.
Research
My interest in holistic healthcare came about from having cancer between the ages of 18-36. I know first hand how constrained the medical model can be with managing chronic pain. Holistic models that included Te Ao Māori resulted in a significant improvement in my health over time.
Now when I say ‘holistic’ I imagine some eyes rolling. But why is that?
As Māori, a multifaceted perspective is intrinsic when dealing with any problem. There is nothing ‘new’ about holism. It respects people, looks past the obvious to the whakapapa of what we may carry, and explores creative solutions. And it makes complete sense.

When I heard of Rotorua’s QE Health Wellness & Spa through a friend, I did more research. Since World War II, QE has had a solid reputation for providing holistic rehabilitation and pain management programmes. It seemed the best opportunity to help manage the fibromyalgia.
Since we live outside the QE catchment area, I looked at other options. A successful application to the NZ Music Foundation (Musicians in Need Fund) enabled my son to be funded for three weeks of treatment (as a day patient). The Foundation was incredibly open to him accessing a holistic treatment programme, an attitude supported by their recent surveys that show NZ musicians often have higher rates of chronic pain and mental health issues than the general population.
Rotorua
QE Health Wellness & Spa was welcoming, professional and supportive. The induction process was inclusive and I (as whānau) was encouraged to visit at any time. From Monday to Friday, a comprehensive individually tailored treatment programme occurred. This included: nutrition, physiotherapy, mud treatments, mineral pools, mindfulness techniques, counselling, pyretic treatments, massage, gym, medication reviews and education sessions covering pain management, goal setting, communication, lifestyle balance, sleep hygiene, breathing techniques, posture, energy management, problem solving, and relaxation.
When flare-ups inevitably happened, a skilled team of people supported my son. They didn’t throw more medication his way, but provided space to kōrero, and encouraged him to listen to his body, and utilise the treatments that had worked for him.
QE provided a superb holistic team of well-qualified professionals, who validated, supported and reassured their patients.
After three weeks of treatment, my son left with a clear understanding about his experience of fibromyalgia, up-to-date research, and the development of a realistic routine to manage the condition.
Conclusion
I believe it is long overdue that Aotearoa looks at chronic health issues from a wider holistic perspective.
Medical practitioners would benefit from being equipped to investigate holistic treatment options for patients. There should be DHB funding available to facilitate this, thereby empowering people to self-manage their wellbeing whenever possible. Furthermore, a great deal could be gained from supporting indigenous holistic models of health and wellbeing.
Patients are individuals, who experience pain relative to their own bodies, minds, spirits, and environments. These things cannot be fractured off from one another, and to leave them out when making diagnoses seems negligent.
I am incredibly grateful we received funding to enable my son to access QE, contrary to his GP’s belief that it would have any effect. From our whānau perspective the positive results speak volumes. My son was ‘treated like a human being’ and actively engaged in a treatment programme that has been in operation for over seventy years and which draws on both indigenous and conventional medicines.
For us, it is clear. There is no other way to manage fibromyalgia than to think outside the box and treat it holistically.
Iona Winter (Māori/Pākehā) has a Master of Creative Writing and is a published author of fiction and non-fiction. When she’s not writing her ‘day job’ is a holistic psychotherapist.
Photo credits for Rotorua mudpool, Rotorua jetty and Rotorua trees: Iona Winter.
Find more information on QE Health Wellness & Spa here.
Hear hear!
Kia ora Jacqui 🙂
Kia ora Iona. Thank you for the willingness to tell this poignant and important story. A story that needs to be told so that we can stop putting boundaries around our professional silos, around our preferred separate and tightly held belief systems and our insistence there is ever only ‘one way’. You open up the vista in this account. Many thanks, Roy Bowden
Kia ora Roy. Koinā anō hoki tāku, I completely agree. Thank you for your support. Mauri ora, Iona
Thank you for this Iona. Seems completely mad to NOT be working this way!
My mother has a similar experience of remarkable healing with the treatment of her rheumatoid arthritis at QEII several years ago, after going from one alternative wellness practitioner to another and getting progressively worse.
How can we support more genuinely holistic centres being developed like this one?
Kia ora Jenny, thanks for your response. Tautoko, it is mad not to.
Glad your mum had a good experience at QE, Rotorua is such a special place.
I believe we need to get creative, vote consciously, and have more kōrero like this to get things moving. Personally I think centres like QE ought to be attached to every hospital in Aotearoa.
Ngā mihi, Iona
Agreed!!!
Thanks, Iona,
A wonderful challenge to our narrow thinking in much of our medical care.
And a great result.
Ka kite ano,
Andrew
Kia ora Andrew.
Happy to challenge narrow thinking 🙂
E whakawhetai ki a koe,
Iona
A heart warming and pertinent account of persistence, of not taking ‘no’ for an answer, of belief in there being many interweaving paths to health, of belief in yourself and your son. Ka Pai Iona.
Kia ora Lesley, for your generous feedback.
Āe, e manawanui ahau 🙂
Ngā mihi aroha,
Iona
Iv just come off a 3wk inpatient stay at QE & iv lived in daily pain for 17yrs (fibromyalsia & myofacial pain syndrome). I can honestly say it was the best thing i could have ever attended. The staff are amazing & everyone genuinely cares. It can be overwhelming & intense (especially in the 1st week) but when the 3rd week rolls over everything fits in to place. I highly recommend it & i totally agree with what Iona has just written. Blessings to you & your son Iona xx
Tēnā koe whaea Ngahuia, thank you.
I remember meeting you just before we left 🙂
I’m so glad you also had a wonderful experience at QE.
Blessings to you too, from us both, ngā mihi aroha, Iona x
Thanks for sharing a wonderful and informative article with us..really it gives a wonderful challenge to our narrow thinking in much of our medical care.
Kia ora Relate Counselling, thanks for your comments. I’m pleased this challenge (to how we view health, wellness and healing in Aotearoa) has been useful for you. Kā mihi nui, Iona
Thank you for this write up, as a worker at QE it is with great pleasure that I read your article and the feedback of others. It’s an honour that we can provide this service to our community and for them to feel the Benefit in return.
Kia ora Andrina, my absolute pleasure. The experience has stayed with us and the benefits are invaluable. Kā mihi nui ki a koe, Iona